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March 25, 2005 12:12 p.m.

I'm sitting here in my pajamas, in front of H's computer, gently bouncing on a large ball, typing with one hand while I hold our daughter with my other arm.

This is what it's all about...well, right now it's all about keeping her asleep for the next hour-and-a-half so that she stops waking up every hour to eat an ounce and go right back to sleep.

Here are some pics from the past few days:

Ummm...not sure about this...

Dad, are you sure this is safe?

Yeah, I don't think so...
(She looks just like her mother here.)

...and from right now...

Isn't she beautiful? So peaceful...

Oh...no...wait...

Please...c'mon...shhh....

Ah...whew...that was close...

DOH!!!! Gotta go...

March 20, 2005 2:25 p.m.

My wife is getting excited about sucking the boogers out of our daughter's nose...

E-DANCE

March 20, 2005 11:28 p.m.

GOT MILK???

E-party
We took our daughter out to her first party this weekend! Well, really it was her first outing. She did so much better than we thought she would do. We were sure she was just going to scream the whole time, but she actually let people hold her and spent some of the time not crying or screaming, which, for her, was pretty impressive. Heather and I actualy got to sit down and eat together for the first time in seven weeks. At one point, our baby was just being passed from person to person and we just sat there and enjoyed the peace and quiet of a room filled with about 100 people eating, drinking and visiting. It was great! We stayed out longer than we planned and now we just can't wait until it warms up enough that we can start taking her out with us.

Several people at the party, and in previous conversation have told us that our baby looks like an elf or a pixie, and H and I both agree, so I managed to take a few pictures of her that seem to capture that.

 
 
 

 

E-mazing technology
I just want to take a moment to thank the inventors of a few miracle tools that make taking care of babies SO much easier.

Disposable diapers - absolutely amazing, what more can I say. The amount of liquid these things can absorb is staggering. It makes me want to keep a pile of them in the kitchen for the rare occasion when you accidental drop the entire gallon of milk and it explodes. I'll bet two or three of those diapers could take care of it. And, I haven't even mentioned the fact that these cute little pieces of apparrel come with a picture of Elmo on them! How can you beat that?!

Diaper genie - genie indeed! I don't want to hear about the miracles of converting lead to gold, or water to wine, someone invented this device which turns toxic waste filled diapers into odor-free sausages. Hats off to the inventor of this handy tool.

Wipes warmer - I didn't realize the complete value of this invention until the first time I had to change our beautiful baby from the diaper bag and had the wipes, but not the warm ones. The pitch of a baby's scream when an ice-cold moist towlette hits her delicate, previously very warm (and dirty) nether regions is really quite startling. I can't imagine having to deal with that every time we change her. If the wipe is warm, she's happy and doesn't even notice she's being cleaned.

Taking care of a baby in today's modern age of technological conveniences really makes you wonder how they did it 30 years ago, much less 50, or 100 years ago. I mean, c'mon, cotton diapers?! with safety pins!?! Don't make me laugh...At those middle of the night changings, I sometimes have trouble with the little sticky tabs. Our baby would look like swiss cheese if I had to use pins. And what did they do with those piles of cotton diapers?? I mean, I know they had diaper services that would come by and pick them up (you couldn't just wash a big load of dirty diapers in your washing machine, could you? Still, what did they do about the smell? I don't think there was non-permeable plastic back then. And I'm sure they didn't have moist towlettes, espeically in pop-up warmers...I guess we've got it pretty easy.

March 11, 2005

E-status

She's sleeping right now...shhhh...Although we can run the vacuum cleaner, Skye can toss his LOUD rawhide bones around and she doesn't seem to mind once she's in slumberland, we'll take whatever steps we think will help keep her sleeping and not screaming.

She's been getting better...I suppose. She screams less, but she still screams. It would be nice to think there was a reason for it. We always blame it on gas since she constantly squirms around and spends lot of time burping and farting. She's very musical. We've tried Gripe Water, Mylicon drops and are now trying lactose-free formula, since some of H's family were/are lactose intolerant. She doesn't care, she keeps screaming and squirming.

I was feeding her this morning and she had just finished off her third ounce of formula, when I stood up to get another less encrusted burp cloth and she spewed at least two of the three ounces out across the new pajamas H had just put her in this morning, my sweatshirt sleeve (no great loss, it was on its third day anyway, so it was probably ready for a washing), nice splatters on the coffee table and finally, on the dog and cat hair covered living room rug. It was pretty impressive coverage.

I'm still trying to do at least one or two night feedings a week so that H can get some sleep. So, it's all been about baby, sleep and PowerPoint, PowerPoint, PowerPoint. That's what my current freelancing opportunity has me focusing on. At least it keeps me motivated to look for other work.

E-neighbors
When we first moved into this house, back in 2003 (wow, has it been that long already?), we were planning on this being a starter home where we would do a bunch of home improvements (even though I knew nothing about home improvements, but H said her ex had built their last house, so she knew how to do most of that stuff…) and then we would sell the place in 3-5 years and find our ideal house. Then we met our neighbors…

Most people we know either don’t know their neighbors or can’t stand their neighbors, or they have maybe one neighbor they like, but that’s it. We, on the other hand, must have done something right in a previous life, because we like ALL of our neighbors and they’re all the most incredible, helpful, knowledgeable people we know.

Here are a few examples.
Bulldozers – One of the first things we knew we had to do when we moved in was clear out the years of brush and down trees that surrounded the house and property. I called a bunch of friends and family and asked for as much chainsaw and back-breaking help as people were willing to give over one weekend. They all showed up and we started hacking our way into the jungle. About two hours (and maybe 20 feet) into it, one of our neighbors showed up, who had only met us once and said “Um, yeah, I’ve got a bulldozer that I could bring down here and take care of this a lot faster if you’d like.” Now H and I both feel horrible about imposing on others, but this was an opportunity we couldn’t pass up, so, about six hours later 90% of the brush was gone, the ground was clean and we were amazed. Not even mentioning the fact that he came back later and brought down his York rake and smoothed everything out, and then even came down again to put down grass seed!!

 

Grass – Last summer we hadn’t invested in a riding mower yet, so I was mowing our entire lawn with a push mower. It took me about 4 hours to do and wiped me out each time. We’d end up going two weeks between mowing just because it was such a chore. One day in the middle of the summer I was mowing down the brush in the very back of our property and I burned out the power assist on the push mower (H will elaborate about how I kept mowing as smoke was pouring from the little engine, but I was caught up in the moment and was sure it would clear itself). Anyway, the mower went to the shop. About two weeks later, we had gone out and we came home to find our neighbors finishing mowing for us. About two weeks later (still waiting for our mower to get out of the shop) we heard the tell-tale sounds of mowers in our yard and looked out to find three of our neighbors out there with their mowers cleaning up our mess. We just shook our heads in amazement and smiled and decided that we HAD to get a riding mower because we didn’t want to keep making these wonderful people do our work for us.

Snow – It’s New York, we get LOTS of snow. The first year we were here, we did some shopping around, talked to a friend of a friend of ours who does snowplowing, and figured out that it was going to cost us either $250/season or $25/plowing to get our driveway plowed. Now, our driveway is pretty short and it’s gravel, but I knew I wasn’t going to spend my time shoveling it out, so we were prepared to pay for it. The first time it snowed, one of our neighbors from across the street came over with his new snowblower and cleared our driveway for us. We were very grateful, and made them cookies or brownies and figured it was a one-time thing. It certainly wasn’t. This winter we’ve got all three of our neighbors that come over and plow our driveway. They sometimes take turns, or whoever is out first comes down and does everyone else’s driveway. One of our neighbors actually called us the other morning to APOLOGIZE for not finishing our driveway because they blew a piston in their snowblower before they were done. We told them not to worry about it, because our other neighbor came down later and finished it…And I didn’t even get to the part about our other neighbor whose son came over last week and shoveled the snow out from around our car which I hadn’t driven in two weeks. Completely unnecessary, but so appreciated.

Sewage – Ah, the coup de grace. Thanksgiving weekend of last year, I heard our sump pump kick on in the basement. I went down and saw moisture leaking into the basement through the foundation. Not really knowing what that all meant, but knowing that it was probably something horrible that was going to cost us thousands of dollars, I went outside and noticed a strange grey puddle oozing up out of the ground next to our house. I had H flush the toilet and watched in absolute horror as raw sewage spurted up from the ground. Fear set in initially. H was about four or five months pregnant and had been put on bed rest a week or two before, so I didn’t want her to worry too much so I tried to not make too big a deal of it, but I was pretty panicked. I didn’t know what it might be or who to call, so, first I called our neighbor at the end of the road. I knew he had put in the water line to our house years ago, and thought he might know where our septic tank was and what this might be. He wasn’t there so I left a message. I then called our other neighbor across the street and he said “Oh, sounds like your septic line might have burst, you can start digging down to the pipe where it’s leaking, and I’ll be over shortly.” I started digging at about 8 am. By 10 o’clock all of our neighbors were over with shovels, digging out our septic tank. By noon, they had knocked out a beach ball sized hole in our foundation (of course the old pipe had broken all the way into the foundation), cut out the old pipe, replaced it with a new PVC pipe and by 2 pm everything was fixed, the foundation was re-mortared, the tank was covered back up and we were, once again, very grateful that we have such wonderful neighbors.

That doesn’t even go into the dog sitting, house watching, babysitting offers, wonderful stories and other amazing talents spread up and down the street. Just absolutely unbelievable.
So, we’ve pretty much determined that we can never move. If we want a new house, we’re going to have to build right here on this property. And I know, when she gets old enough to appreciate them, Elizabeth will agree. (I feel guilty that this entry wasn’t really about her, but I’ll make up for it).